There was this game show I saw on tv of how people were supposed to go through a hole in the wall..Anyway my issue was that everyone wore this metallic silver body suit to play the game. Now, we know that a metallic silver body suit shows all contours and all protrusions and i noticed my eyes kept wandering to the men's crotch area. I was fascinated at the different curves,lines,shapes..generally all elements of design of that groin region. (I am into arts oh) Then i had an AHA moment and realized why most men never pay attention to the face when having a conversation with a female wearing a low cut shirt. I realized that it was very fascinating to see just the different groin area sizes and i realized cleavage also comes in different sizes so maybe thats why they get stared down more.
First of all i am wondering if my weird assumptions are true or are there more reasons to why eyes wander? I would also like to do more research on that area and would love if all men wore metallic silver bodysuits so they know exactly how it feels when people do not pay attention to the face but look at a significant part of the body while in conversation.
Another rant
After my ongoing conversation with the RAM, i decide to put up some statement on my facebook status saying " Why do i have to be a man to sound intelligent" Now i have had it for about a week up, and i've been getting many messages ONLY from guys either agreeing,disagreeing, appologetic, or giving explanations to why that is. I wondered if ALL men actually feel sorry about sexism and gender inequalities. Mind you no female made mention of my status statment...maybe they agreed in silence or disagreed in annoyance..i'll never know.
I really don't like doing blog public service announcement on here but....
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29 comments:
whenever i watch that show (which is now on FOX), i am too busy laughing to notice the groin area but I'll make sure i check them out next time ...lol. We all size each other up in different ways. Imagine if women could say "check out the balls on that guy" just like men casually make comments abt women "rack".
abt the comment on FB, most of the women probably agree with u. I agree too but I don't think I would av said anything either cos what's another conversation going to do? Sadly many men and women think that's just the way it is and men are just better.
i agree with..durin the olympics, or whenever men r in tights, i find my eyes drawn to the crotch area..its kinda magnetic..lol..
as for ur status..i wuda said somn o..there r countless female intellectuals..
LOL!!!! Just seeing that graphic made me laugh...wait WHAT SILLY GAME IS THAT!
Well, do you blame us for staring???? For heaven's sake it's right in our faces. NOW I'M GLAD LADIES CAN HAVE A FEEL OF WHAT GUYS GO THROUGH {iwalewa and buttercup }
The comment on facebook: I saw you put it up on Wednesday..and I just smiled...I was close to commenting but Femi see, WE MEN GET EGO! NO BE LIE! I'm glad we are in the 21st century, ladies being given better opportunities and attention { plus-including cleavages.lol }
Oh, so you expect me to believe you were looking because you were fascinated by the diversity of the different lines, curves, shapes abi? From a strictly artistic point of view right?
Girl, please! ;)
About RAM...I'm probably giving him far too much credit but if I told you you were the first female Femi I've met, would that give some credence to his assumption that you were a guy?
@iwalewa..love the name...I do wish men wore clothes that revealed something at least...
@buttercup- during olympics it didn't show too well cos they were hinging it under their jock strap..this one was life and unprotected..lol
@seye- what do men go thru? the satisfaction of looking a someones breskoyan (razz eh)
@gng- it was certainly from the artistic view...you know we appreciate the human form as it is art in it sense...don't let me bullshit i was just fascinated by the sizes
Ok, here's a female commenting on your status.Nope, you don't need to be male to sound intelligent. Frankly, I think loads of women sond intelligent, take blogville for instance, they're all over. It's perhaps just a soceital thing, dates back to the woman being labelled the weaker vessel, I guess that includes weaker in brains too.
Nice blog.
Femi, what are you looking at???
get your eyes off my crotch!!!
LOLLLLLLLLL!
Sincerely, it can be very embarassing to have people staring at your crotch as a man. But tell me ladies, does it feel that way when we stare at your cleavages?
Just curious!
I think as per "Why do i have to be a man to sound intelligent" the women were agreeing in silence...
lollllll but kini big deal sef???
but dearie u do have a wandering eye :)
That is the only reason why I watch athletics...especially when they do the playback...my oh my...seeing it bouncing back and forth... in slow motion..now that, my dear girls, is very entertaining!
As for that guy on facebook, is he serious? Why can't he spell out his words properly? I could never take a guy that writes like that serious! How old is he? Just wondering because he seems very...what's that word they use in Nigeria?....can't remember it now, but I guess "juvenile"....Jeez!
Dammy, is that how (or what) your crotch looks like?... lol.. No, I don't have a business there. Hell, no!
I think i like the game... just the cleavy part ;)
@ 4dloveofme- thanks men i do agree..i don't have to be a man to sound intelligent.
@dammy...you wish i was looking at your crotch area. my philosophy is a simple glimpse is ok
@@rita- why agreeing are we consenting to gender unequalities?
@LG..kini big deal shebi shebi we on fire..they can't fire extinguish me with all those groin sizes
@waffarian- hmmmm....maybe i need to rewatch some olympic gamess....in slow motion
@Aloofa- huh?
hahahaha! i started laughing so hard when i saw the pic, because they have that show on the russian channel that my parents just won't stop watching! lol..the sports that make me look at crotches in fascination are cycling and all them swimming events...men in spandex? ROTFLMAOO!! chai, e funny o! Lance armsrtong in cycling shorts *laughing too hard to continue typing*
Lmao!! I agree with ur theory on cleavages and crotches!!
And abegii...i dont hv to hv a sausage danglin b/w my leg b4 hvin my brain cellz work o!
Lol!
Naughty you.
I did not get the card you sent, but thanks all the same.
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Crotch ke? Wetin u wan see 4 there?!!
Dat area diff 4rm d bust o! I wonder how God take do am: why breast dey always shack men?
so, seriously, do u get as excited as we get from starin at a woman's chest?
@Icequeen I guess all sports do..but they have the jockey strap which kinda puts it in place..but just seeing it raw and bared underneath the silver metallic..ok I'll stop here
@Ms dee lol that should be my next status..sausage btw legs and brain cells
@oluwadee- im not naughty..only curious
@Fineboyagbero...wont call it excitement..but curiosity
Having pple stare at ur crotch is bad enough, but imagine when it's cos u forgot to zip up ur fly. Talking from experience here. I'll prefer looking at cleavages and i sure do whenever i get the chance. lol.
Wao! What a list gurl! I'm, sooooooooo confused. I guess i'll just choose all and call my pup all those names as well. I call her Cleopatra or Cleo for the meantime. How u doing? I guess illiteracy's what makes these norther guys act like madmen sometimes. Whatcha think? Tkia
Babe, abeg where is the show???? I must watch it....for the purposes of art and humor, of course.
Lol. Interesting, you should do that research and give me the info.
I went thru that same stress earlier this year. I was the only girl in my graduating class in college, and everyone who saw my name called me Mr Isha before even looking at me. It's a man's world, sadly but truly.
ah, forget about the status thing. Try having a conversation with a man who does not understand the glass ceiling concept and the reality of sexism. It makes for an interesting discussion and when you finally open his mind, you will feel so accomplished...until he opens his mouth again.
lol!!!!!
Dangerous!
gbengasile
I am sure everyone (MALE OR FEMALE)TRIES TO CATCH A GLIMPSE OF cleavage but its the staring that bothers me. And sorry about your fly situation..i would have been laughing
Vera Ezimora...
Love the name oh...sounds like a fabulous designer name...Its on fox and don't worry I would keep it a secret that its for the purpose of the sports and not the contours of that "ungodly" region.
Mr Isha...
IM kidding...i feel your pain girl
Solomonsydelle
we must crack that ceiling with our stiletto heels oh
Ababoy2
Whats dangerous..the crotch or the cleavage??/
Thanx babe (for the info on fox news channel).
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LMAO!!!!
AHA! You see! the next woman [especially bloggers] that calls me an ashewo for booty watching I will clear spit in their face
as for the status msg...I beg to differ o...and yes I am apologetic abt the whole gender inequality nonsense
that show originated in japan o and they wear evening clothes to get on their own wharrever...
LOL...show sounds hilarious... wont lie though I'm higly intrigued at the prospect of men walking around in the silver suits... lol...
unfortunately, most times a woman has to prove herself wice as hard as any man to be heard... reminds me actually, was watching an episode of girfriends and joan complained about the exact same thing.. some one actually advised her that the 'tone and depth' of a woman's voice was somewhat harder to hear in a room full of men with deep voices... (now that's a winner don't you think)... slowly the world's coming round to understand that we as women aren't just pretty faces, tits and ass, there actually is some content to us... so rest assured hun, it really is changing for the better!
will be back!
aunty, update na..
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